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6 TYPES OF ATTRACTION

 


 

1 GENETIC ATTRACTION

  • Good DNA match to make healthy babies
  • Doesn’t consider relationship compatibility

When you feel this type of attraction, you are experiencing a chemical reaction to there being a DNA match to be able to make healthy babies.  Whilst this was a very good way to ensure the surival of the species in a time when childbirth was a life threatening activity.  With the advancement of medicine and science it is no longer relevant.  The worst thing about this type of attraction is that it does not at all take into consideration your compatibility as people

2 AESTHETIC ATTRACTION

  • A match to the picture in our mind of who/what is should look like
  • Short lived

This attraction occurs as a result of a match between the image we hold in our head of our perfection projection, or the way it is supposed to look.  The issue with this is that the picture in our head is not a reality based idea of relationship and the relationship as well as the attraction is short lived.

3 TOXIC AND PATTERNED

  • Most peoples level of attraction
  • Unconscious match to old childhood pattern
  • Love in terms of our parental relationship

This is where most people are attracted from and to.  It is where we unconsciously find a match to an old pattern usually from childhood that started with what we thought or decided love was according to the usually toxic relationships we had with our parents.

4 KARMIC

  • Something that will inspire a learning
  • Enjoyable AND frustrating
  • Has a life span

We feel this attraction when we usually unconsciously, see or feel in anther person an opportunity for learning and growth.  It is for this reason that it can be both enjoyable and frustrating, because growth usually is challenging and can be painful at times.  This kind of relationship is healthy to have especially in our late teens or very early alduthood as it is a means to learn more about ourselves.  It does however have a life span and so if you are looking for a long term or life partner then this type of attraction is destructive.

5 NATIVE ATTRACTION

  • Masculine attracted to Feminine
  • Unexplainable, not always a rational ‘fit’
  • Based on nature

This is where the masculine nature of one person is attracted to the feminine nature of another and it is a healthy and natural attraction that has moved beyond the earlier mentioned types of attraction to a clean slate. This type of attraction again doesn’t take into account personality traits but as it is not based on old or destructive patterns it is a good and healthy place to begin exploring relationship potential from.

6 DIVINE ATTRACTION

  • Opportunity to touch a more whole part of ourselves
  • Can lead to deep and fulfilling relationship
  • The purpose of relationship

This is the type of attraction that occurs when we unconsciously recognise the opportunity to touch a deeper, transpersonal part of ourselves.  It is this type of attraction that offers us the potential to experience relationship for its ultimate purpose.  Self realisation and love touch a much deeper and more whole part of ourselves and of life. This is the type of attraction that can lead to deep and fulfilling relationship

Some of us will experience more than one of these types of attraction but you will find that there will be one that you lean towards and sometimes it will change at different times of your life.  The goal is to come to Native Attraction.  The truth is that our unconscious attraction is one of the things that keeps on leading us down the garden path when it comes to love which is why I have created a process that successfully reprograms your Love Codes as part of my Juicy Relationship Training (link) re-programming the way our attraction is coded so that you start to be attracted to the right kind of man is really the first place to start.  If you want to learn more about this then you can get the full download from my Dating, Mating and Relating audio training.

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