DO YOU LOVE MY STINKY HAIRY BITS?

DO YOU LOVE MY STINKY HAIRY BITS?

How do you love as though you have never been hurt before? My answer is… You don’t. If we have been hurt, betrayed, scared.. This is what we take to the next relationship.  Really this is what makes us who we are and if we expect our selves to be perfect in order to...
THE ‘C’ WORD…

THE ‘C’ WORD…

I had a conversation the other day, where the ‘C’ word came up and I found that I was quite offended… A strange response to a word that is apparently often associated to women and their desires. I am, of course talking about commitment. I was a little outraged to be...
GETTING WHAT YOU WANT THE EASY WAY

GETTING WHAT YOU WANT THE EASY WAY

How do we get the men in our lives to give us what we want? Do we leave them little cryptic notes? Drop hints?  Send psychic messages? Or create a fair trade deal of “I’ll do this if you do that”? Ahhh, no! If we want a man to give us what we want, then we need...
LOVE HIM, FUCK HIM OR HAVE A CUP OF TEA?

LOVE HIM, FUCK HIM OR HAVE A CUP OF TEA?

It has been my wayward, roller coaster ride of exploration in my early to mid thirties (okay I’m heading just past ‘mid’ but hey what’s a year or two?) of men, sex and relationships to find and make sense of it all.  A futile expedition some may say; however my...
EVERYTHING WOMEN KNOW ABOUT MEN….

EVERYTHING WOMEN KNOW ABOUT MEN….

I was so tempted to simply put a blank blog here. We’ve all seen those little books titled “Everything a man knows about women’’,  and then the pages are blank, and while I believe this to be the case for what women know about men, I couldn’t leave it at...